5 Secrets To Make Guys Go Gaga
Want to quintuple your odds of winning in the dating game?
We surveyed a variety of top experts and learned five unbelievably
effective secrets to make guys go gaga.
Work it, dream girl:
1. BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION
Want to be the one who gets noticed? Stand in the center of the
room. According to Dr. Albert Mehrabian, the author of several books and
nationally-known expert in the field of spatial psychology, where you are in a
room (and what you're doing) has a lot to do with your ability to attract the
opposite sex. Where should you be for the highest impact and the greatest
number of interested cuties? Smack-dab in the center of the room, standing up
and moving around a bit. (But don't pace a track on the carpet for goodness
sake...)
If you're in a bar or nightclub, the best place to be is at one of
the corners on the bar. Not only will you meet more people, but, according to
Mehrabian, bartenters tend to gravitate toward the corners as well. Interesting
conversation AND a full drink? You'll feel like you've died and gone to dating
heaven. The worst place to be seen? Hanging out near the wall or sitting at a
table. That hot stranger approaching your table and asking "may I join
you" only happens in the movies.
2. THE COLOR LURE
What color can you wear to compel the opposite sex to approach
you?
According to Color Consultant Leatrice Eiseman, Director of the
Pantone Color Institute and author of Colors For Your Every Mood, says women
should wear a pink- peach to make themselves most approachable. The color is
"very flattering to most skin tones, it gives you healthy glow," and
according to Eiseman, projects "a little vulnerability which brings out
something protective in men."
Want to wear a color that weeds out guys who can't handle strong
women? Try a deep red, burgundy or plum. Men who aren't attracted to strong
women will steer clear.
Of all the colors, red is the most sensual. But, wear red with
caution. "Red is the color of sex and power," says Eiseman. Red adds
an element of excitement and attracts two types of men - men interested in sex,
and men attracted to powerful women. Sure, you'll probably have to fend off a
lot of freaks, but you could also end up attracting a guy that isn't threatened
by the fact that you make a bigger salary.
Concerned your wardrobe is driving people away? Stay away from
what Eiseman calls "squished caterpillar yellow-green" which is said
to repel both sexes equally.
Want to know what color the dream guys will be wearing this year?
It’s blue. According to Eiseman, guys who frequently wear blue are
"stable, faithful, constant and always there." The blue guy is a
fantastic candidate for a long-term relationship -- he’s dependable, momogomous
and can match his own clothes.
3. BODY TALK THAT REELS 'EM IN
How do you use body language to attract the opposite sex?
The key is to make yourself approachable. According to
nationally-respected body language expert and professional speaker, Patti Wood,
you want to make yourself a "safe" (read approachable) target. How do
you accomplish that? Don't take up a lot of space (which is a sign of power and
superiority.) Wood says, "we are strong women, but remember, we're trying
to get a man to come over and talk to us." She explains, "you have to
show you have room for someone else in your life."
In addition, Wood says "to be very approachable women should
stand with their feet no farther than 6 inches apart with toes pointed slightly
inward. " Other key moves, the nod and the head tilt - signal you're
listening to what the other person has to say.
Body language tips for both sexes: Don't fold your arms and don't
chew on gum, ice or your fingernails. According to Wood, the chewing indicates
anxiety or frustration, neither of which are very attractive emotions.
4. THE POWER OF A SMILE
Psychology and body language experts agree that one of the most
important things you can do to make yourself more attractive (and approachable)
is to smile. Not a great big plastic game-show smile, just your normal
"I'm having a great time and I'm happy to be here" face will do the
trick. According to Wood, "the smile is the international signal of friendliness."
5. TEMPTING WITH SCENT
Studies show that men associate the scents of cinnamon and vanilla
with love. To make the scents work for you, try baking some ready-made cinnamon
rolls about an hour before your date arrives, or, wear a cinnamon-vanilla
scented perfume (there's a fabulous one called "Man Magnet" at
www.chooseherbs.com)
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Aromatherapy experts have long-believed cinnamon to be an
aphrodisiac. According to Laura Davimes, aromatherapy and herb expert , and
owner of Herban Avenues, "certain aromatic plants exude oils similar to
our own sexual secretions or pheromones. Wearing cinnamon/vanilla blends
increases the presence of pheromone-like substances and dramatically increases
attraction."
Lisa Daily is the author of Stop Getting Dumped! All you need to
know to make men fall madly in love with you and marry "The One " in
3 years or less
